Romance and marriage?
Real warm, tender and quivering feelings arise in a married couple, which together is not according to the calculation and not because of the children, but because of true and sincere love for each other.
Romance in marriage - to be or not to be
Modern life is running very fast, and in our age among the everyday difficulties, the eternal aspirations to achieve career growth, there is not always time for romantic deeds.
Many still believe that the romantic mood is inherent only in young couples in love. In the transition from the “candy-bouquet” period to real life, the romance breaks about the complexity of life. But after all, romantic relationships can bring happiness not only to young people in love.
At any stage of the relationship it is nice when you are, for no reason, kissed or surprised by a sweet act. So let us strive to ensure that romance is always in our family life, and not just during the honeymoon. And there should be no exceptions, so away the excuses!
So, later in the article you will find recommendationsfollowing which you strengthen your relationship with your loved one, and no matter how many years of family life you have behind.
How to keep romance: a few tips
Looks beautiful even at home
Men love with their eyes, and women love with their ears. We did not invent this, but this is a simple truth. Therefore, more often delight the eyes of your man. Do you think he wants to look at you in an old robe or a shapeless grandmother's sweater? And a man doesn’t care that you are tired after work, and you still have to mess around with your child.
This does not mean that at home you need to wear shoes with heels and wear evening dresses. Just clothes should be not only comfortable, but also beautiful, emphasize your charms and hide flaws. Even in sports pants you can look sexy and desirable, but you need to choose and combine with modern T-shirts and T-shirts.
Homewear can be a comfortable fitting dress made of natural material. The choice is yours, but remember that men like to look at the beautiful picture.
Home makeup - an indispensable condition
Many of us use cosmetics only when we go to visit, to work, to the club. But at home she is simply forgotten.Do you really think that a man is pleased to look at you - unkempt and disheveled? This does not mean that every morning you need to put a thick layer of cosmetics and make bright makeup.
But here is a thin layer of BB-cream, a few brush strokes of the mascara, a light layer of blush - that's all, you look fresh and well-groomed. But it only takes 10 minutes. Are you sorry to spend 10 minutes of your time? A reward will be the lights in the eyes of a loved one and his compliments.
Do not become a housekeeper
In some families, a woman pulls on herself the whole household. Perhaps this is due to our mentality. It so happened that the man - the breadwinner, the woman - the keeper of the hearth. But the modern woman also has a job, so she should not do absolutely all the duties of the house.
Even a child can help around the house, and the task of a woman is to distribute responsibilities between family members. You can turn boring cleaning into a pleasant pastime with your loved one, if you turn on your favorite music and have some fun.
Use the maximum machine. You do not need to wash the dishes with your hands if there is an opportunity to purchase a dishwasher.Take care of yourself and your pens.
And what could be nicer than cooking dinner with your loved one!
Cleaning and care
How often do we hear from women that they have absolutely no time for themselves. And few people realize that pleasant female procedures can be successfully combined with household chores.
For example, you can put on a face mask, and you have 20 minutes to vacuum the apartment. You can successfully iron the clothes, while wearing cotton gloves, and you should first apply warm olive oil on your hands.
Standing at the stove, you can periodically perform squats. So it turns out taking care of your figure. So you not only cook dinner for the whole family, but you will take care of your form.
Price of touch
Agree that over the years the thrill of a single touch is gone. We stop feeling each other. And this is not a loss of sensation. Just over time, touches are becoming increasingly random. Give such trifles more attention, come, hug, kiss for no reason.
Feeling such care, beloved will surely reciprocate. And how long have you watched a movie together? And all you have to do is choose the appropriate movie, take a rug, embrace and spend 2 hours with your loved one.Return the lost romance!
Learn to forgive
How often over the years we get offended at each other and can not talk for days and weeks. But this marriage does not become stronger. Women sometimes have already forgotten the cause of the quarrel, but they still don’t talk to their husband.
All quarrels end a romantic dinner. Do not keep in yourself insults, it is better to sit down and talk, then there will be no misunderstandings.
Stay always welcome
The bedroom in each apartment is the personal space of the husband and wife. Do not combine the bedroom with the living room, do not put a computer there. Create a special atmosphere in the bedroom, make a muffled light.
Men by nature put sex in a very important place. No matter how tasty you cook and how many children you give birth to, you should still be desired for your husband.
How to cause the desire of her husband, this is an individual question. Some have a positive attitude to role-playing games, others have enough of a hint of sex in an unconventional place. Remember what you liked at the very beginning of your relationship. Do not be afraid to take the initiative in your hands, the absolute majority of men like it.
The return of romance in relationships: effective methods
Return all moments and activities that gave you pleasure:
- favorite vacation spots;
- telephone conversations;
- old photos, and you can make new ones;
- spend an evening of memories, watch the wedding video.
By following these simple recommendations, you will still be loved and desired, and your tender relationship will never cool for years.